Stop comparing yourself to what is around you and set your own standards. Step up and set them high. Too many of us are just trying to keep up with everyone else. Be unique and step outside of your comfort zone. You will never achieve greatness feeling comfortable. When you feel comfortable, you no longer have the ability to grow and develop. Do not live in the world that was made available to you. Create your own world! It should come from your vision and your standards! You will never know what it is like unless you step outside that comfort zone and create it yourself.