What are you doing on a daily basis that will make it impossible for someone to say no to you. No matter what your situation, you need to stand above the crowd. You need to be unique and have uncommon actions. Notice the word action is plural. So many us fail at our goals because we take action for a certain amount of time and eventually return to our normal routine. It requires substantial action to change your habits. Do not take no for answer when going after something you really want. Do a little a lot. Not a lot a little.