The same goes for life. Handle every experience one at a time and take everything you can from it. It is never important what happens to you. What is important is what you do about what happened to you. It is fine to initially respond to loss or failure with sadness or anger but only if its fleeting. Look for opportunity to overcome the challenge or obstacle. Some times you may have to rebuild from the ground up. Now just be thankful that you have the ground to do so.